The Author’s People – Part 3
So it seems that we’re getting ready to say goodbye to the year of the wood sheep (the ram? the goat? can anyone actually tell me which one it is?) and say hello to the year of the red monkey. Unfortunately, at the “ripe old” age of forty-something, I’m finally starting to lose faith in horoscopes and astrological projections and year-of-the-anythings. You see, I read somewhere that 2015 was supposed to bring about large scale humanitarianism and an increase in overall kindness as we all basked in the warm glow of a year brimming in forgiveness and reconciliation. What do you think? Was 2015 all it was trumped up to be? I’m not convinced. Blame it on Tumblr and Facebook and the news in general, but I’ve seen a whole hell of a lot of negativity, destruction, and apathy this past year. Of course, that’s not going to stop me from hoping for the best in 2016. It sounds kind of cheery. Playful, at the very least. How could a little red monkey be anything but, am I right?
Before I get too far off topic, though, I should get to my point. For the last few months I’ve been wading through the topic of “The Author’s People”, and I’ve touched on quite a few so far: the Publisher, the Editor(s), Beta Readers, Cover Artists, and now (after a short break in December), I’ve finally come back to the concept to talk about Blog Sites and Reviewers.
But let me back up just a step or two to explain what’s going on in case you’ve stopped in for the first time. I get a lot of questions on social media about writing. How to, what to, where to; that kind of thing. I think that’s great. I love sharing the little bit of know-how that I have (it is limited, trust me) and I truly believe that helping one another is the only way to stave off some of the anxiety a new writer feels as they put those first few steps forward. I’m not an expert, but I’m also not a hoarder of information in the hopes to gain some kind of advantage. I don’t look at writing as a competition. There’s lots of room on the writing platform for all of us. So if you do have a question you’d like me to pick up on at a later date, by all means feel free to send it my way. You can catch me on all kinds of social media, or feel free to leave it here in the comment area.
Aaaanywaaay… as I’ve wandered yet again… this series of posts is meant as an introduction to the who’s who in an author’s life and what to expect from these whos. In other words, not just who these people are, but how these people help and what an author should be able to expect from their involvement. So. Blog sites and reviewers…
This particular post couldn’t have come at a better time. Not too many days ago I was messaged by an associate of mine who was having some issues with aggressive comments on a review they’d posted. This wasn’t the first time they’d had problems and I got the impression that they were full up to here (this is where I tap my forehead at the hairline) with the B.S. Now, I don’t run a blog site that does reviews and the only reviews I do myself are the ones I put up on Goodreads, so I can’t really relate to how a person feels when their opinion on a novel gets trashed or ridiculed. I can, however, broach the subject of what an author should expect from these extremely important people in our lives.
Reviewers
There is one thing and one thing only that an author should expect from a reviewer – an honest review – and that means whether the reviewer received the book as a gift from the author/publisher or whether the reviewer bought their own copy. That review might only be three words: I hated it. That review could end up being nothing but a dismal one-star with a note alongside it saying they would have preferred to give zero stars if they could have.
A reviewer is not obligated to like your novel, nor are they obligated to curtail their opinion if they didn’t like it. I once heard an author say that if somebody doesn’t have something nice to say, they shouldn’t say anything at all. Well, that’s not how this works. This isn’t Kindergarten and an author doesn’t automatically deserve an A+ just for their efforts. If a reviewer wishes to give an author a one-star review and the aforementioned three words of doom, that is their unquestionable right. They are not obligated to tell the author why (although it’s great it they do), or offer up constructive criticism as to how best to go about correcting the issues that made them dislike the novel in the first place. That is not a reviewer’s responsibility if that reviewer doesn’t want to make it so.
Does it hurt? Of course it does. Does it suck? Hell, yes. But there isn’t an author out there who doesn’t have at least one one-star review, or a DNF, or a review that’s the literary equivalent of tearing the pages of the book out one by one and setting them on fire. If, as an author, you don’t like negative reviews I offer you this bit of advise: Don’t read them.
Write because you love to write, publish because you want to share your words, but don’t expect everyone that reads the words to love them. Or even like them. A review is an opinion and everyone is entitled to one.
Hope for the best from your reviewers, be grateful for every purchase and every positive word, but do not expect them to be gentle with you. A reviewer owes an author nothing.
Blog Sites
Okay (imagine an author jumping into the post at this point), I can see your point with reviewers, Henley. But blog sites are different. I’m doing a giveaway! I’ve given them a copy of my novel, so they didn’t even have to buy it! I’m even writing up a post for this! All this stuff is going to garner them views and maybe even new followers! I’ve given them my time and my work. They damn well owe—
*holds up one hand, policeman-style*
Nope. No, they sure don’t.
Okay, in all truth there are a couple of things an author should/can expect from a blog site. If, for example, you have agreed to do some kind of promotional event on their site, you can expect to have your post released on the agreed upon date. You can expect them to fulfill any details on your *contractual agreement* (and I star this to make a point, as there is a big difference between a contractual arrangement and a favour). You can expect them to treat their followers with respect, as by doing so it makes you look respectful as well.
Does that mean if they accidentally overlook your post, or your advertisement, or your review, that the author should lose their mind and start freaking out? No. The owners of these sites have lives beyond the electronic pages of their blogs. Your novel is important to you, but their kid’s recital (or spelling bee, or soccer game) or their first date with the person they’ve been trying to get to know for the last year or that sudden, unexpected, but oh-so-very-necessary job interview they finally got is important to them. Mistakes are infrequent but occasionally unavoidable. Contractual agreement or not, they’re just people too. It most definitely does not mean they have to turn around and give you a good review. As an author you can hope that if a review site doesn’t like your book they don’t turn around and publish a bad review alongside your blog tour post. But you really can’t expect that either. It’s their site to do what they choose to do with it. Don’t sick your street team on them. Don’t put up a post telling your followers/readers to “get them.” That just makes the author look unprofessional and bitter.
So there we are – what to expect from reviewers and blog sites as an author. Oddly enough, there have been more “actually, you don’t get to expect anything from <insert title here>” than I expected there would be when I first started on this series. That being said, I can assure you that next month’s post is going to be positively fraught with expectations. 😉
What do you think? As a reviewer, as a reader, as a follower of one of the blog sites, do you have an opinion on expectations? I’d love to read it and chat about it with you so please, be sure to leave your comment and share it with me.
Until next time,
AF Henley <3
Henley was born with a full-blown passion for run-on sentences, a zealous indulgence in all words descriptive, and the endearing tendency to overuse punctuation. Since the early years Henley has been an enthusiastic writer, from the first few I-love-my-dog stories to the current leap into erotica. A self-professed Google genius, Henley lives for the hours spent digging through the Internet for ‘research purposes’ which, more often than not, lead seven thousand miles away from first intentions but bring Henley to new discoveries and ideas that, once seeded, tend to flourish.
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Language is such an interesting thing. Is it the year of the Sheep or the Goat?!
Well, if I was to do a direct translation from Mandarin, it would be the year of the Sheep. Where I am from, our term for “goat” is pronounced “shan yang.” The word “Shan” means either hill or mountain. “Yang” is the term for “sheep.” So, for me, it’s a literal translation of “Year of the Sheep” and that will end on February 7th this year. February 8, 2016 is the first day of the Lunar New Year the Chinese celebrate. This year is that of the Fire Monkey.
Now that everybody’s completely confused, I can move on. XD
I did a very short trip as a reviewer last year on an actual Review Blog, and personally from my standpoint, it is HARD. Someone has taken the time to put notes on paper (possibly), agonized over the writing of the story (definitely), probably put it through a few Beta Readers (and I am a devout believer this is where most authors pick up the habit of chewing through ALL their fingernails), then proofreaders and editors to get it out there in published form.
A lot of sweat and blood (tears and binge eating) went into the product in my hands, purchased or provided freely not being a point in this at all. A simple “I love it!” or “I hate it” isn’t going to cut it as far as worthwhile effort goes (not that I wouldn’t squee “I love it” whenever given the opportunity). I promised myself that “liking” or “not liking” certain elements of a novel shouldn’t go into play on the objectivity of the review. I try to warn people elements that they might either look forward to or stay away from (bdsm, language, graphic detail, etc). I know that in this little area, a lot of authors read these reviews, so within it I also try to give constructive feedback on how I interpreted certain parts and why it works or didn’t work for the story (for me). The problem with my reviews how different I present it, I think. I hope it helps the authors see their works from another person’s perspective, but the authors might not be looking to chew through so many words when they’ve got more pressing issues to get to (like the next queued novels in their heads that are holding organs hostage).
Thank you for posting! <3 <3
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You’re very welcome, thank you for commenting! Glad you enjoyed. 😀
I hope you get back to the reviewing when you’re feeling more comfortable with the prospect again. It sounds like you put a great deal of thought and personality into it. <3
How can a monkey be anything but happy and cheerful? I don’t know, but the phrase “monkey on my back.” Sprang to mind immediately. Which is its own problems.
The funny thing about forgiveness, appreciation, kindness and humanitarianism, it’s most often done through the narrow views of the individual. People will be neglected to be humane to others. Seems odd, ridiculous, horrible, but in the most bizarre fashion, it seems possible that everyone in the world could have been the most loving and helpful people in the world while destroying everyone around them.
I love your constant reminders of the differences between hopes and expectations. It’s odd they should get so consistently muddled in people’s minds but I think that’s because they confuse both terms with the idea of “fair.” Which is muddled in and of itself often enough. You expect a fair review, you hope for a good one, but fair is good isn’t it? Obviously the answer is “no.” A fair review can easily be “I hated it.” They took the time to read it, they took the time and effort to review it, it’s fair that they should review as they see fit.
Of course on that note if you’re taking the time to request placement on the blog hopefully you’ve chosen a blog known for its fair and informative reviews. Not everyone that reviews your work is guaranteed to be such, but any blog or reviewer you approach specifically for it hopefully you’ve done your homework on them.
I do often hope people will adopt a standard for reviews. I had a speech teacher who said “for every negative write 10 positive.” The idea being that if you only have negative things to say then you’re not paying attention. But I’ve always thought it a somewhat (insert clever word meaning expecting too much) from someone. Not every negative has to be presented as a horrendous atrocity. But neither should a negative be dropped for lack of an applicable amount of positives to go with it. A good reviewer (and not every review is from a good reviewer) will present the negatives as they are.
In my own works I love the praise, I hate the complaints, but I prefer the reviewers who are straight forward with likes and dislikes. In the end they tell me the most.
I strive to be the kind of reviewer I want to see. But I fail miserably because I feel like a giant jack-ass every time I say something potentially negative. So I over compensate. But I do try.
In my work the greatest review or reaction to my work I ever got was one where the reader was unable to do anything but stare wide-eyed in silence unsure how to even comment on what they’d just read. Before breaking out in laughter over how horrid it all was. xD
An excellent, detailed,and well-thought out comment, as always, Frosty. 😀
(Yeah, I think I just reviewed your comment. At least it was a good one. ***** That’s a 5-star rating there, btw. It was the best I could do. XD)
I honestly don’t think there’s a lot hate out there in the the reviewer world. Not the real reviewers, anyway. They try too hard to appear professional and reasonable. There are, however, trolls everywhere and a troll… well, we all know how ugly they can get.
Thank you so much for your insight, my friend. It’s always a pleasure to read your comments. 😀
Of course it is impossible for an author not to attract one or the other negative comment on his/her work. They write what they are god at writing, what they are interested in or what they like. And it is impossible to please every reader/reviewer out there.
But how many times are reviews not very constructive. When someone does not like stories about unicorns and rainbows then do not read it just for the sake to pour your hatred into the world.
It also is not constructive to just write: I did not like it or I hated it.
That is not helpful.
Authors put unimaginable amounts of hard work, sweat, and tears into their work. The least they deserve is such a comment. Even if a reviewer finds stuff within a novel that he does not like? In my opinion an author still deserves a decent and constructive explanation of why in the review. And it does not hurt to stay polite.It could perhaps be helpful.
Authors and reviewers does not need to be on opposite sides. Unless perhaps some reviewers want to characterize their role like that and life for the moment they can condemn an author’s work.
Wait… there are people out there that don’t like stories about unicorns and rainbows?! Madness! Madness, I tell you! What is this world coming to?
I can see your point here, most definitely, and I thank you again (as always) for your insight. I couldn’t agree more that authors and reviewers don’t need to be on opposite sides. And I really do believe that for the most part they’re not. That’s why it’s best to surround ourselves with the good people in this world and just ignore the rest. 😀
Thank you for commenting, buddy! <3