Being Invisible. Being Fake. Being Bisexual.

This last Saturday was Bisexual Visibility Day. That label speaks volumes. It’s not bi rights or even bi equality, it is that bisexual people are still struggling to be recognised let alone accepted! I posted the following to Facebook on Read more

Making Open Relationships Work

That simple title will have caught your attention either because a) you are a monogamist who dismisses the idea completely, or b) you are all for freedom of choice. Let me tell you that both opinions are right for those Read more

Goodbye to Berlin: 1939 and 2017

Exactly one month ago today we were saying goodbye to a host of dear friends at the end of the 2017 Euro Pride Convention in Berlin. I wanted to use my monthly blog post here to reflect on that awesome Read more

Friends, Foes or Allies.

My recent blog post Community. What Community? i wrote about some of the issues damaging our m/m community. I was heartened by the number and quality of the responses clearly showing that there is a need for these issues to be discussed Read more

Reading Between the Words

Reading is something which most of us on here take for granted. Many of us cannot imagine a world without the ability to read. I do wonder however, how often we pause to consider how we are using this amazing Read more

Playtime is Over.

Those of you who know me or follow my daily ramblings on Facebook etc. will know me to be the most positive and optimistic of men. For some months however, there has been a disturbance in the force which troubles Read more