Energy Flows Where Attention Goes

  In this time where so many of us are isolated, with pretty much all of our outreach reduced to social media and the “news,” it is easy to hurt, get negative and lonely and sad.   There is a Read more

ROMANCE VS ROMANTIC FICTION

What’s the difference? I can tell you what I think. And I would surely love to hear what you think! Please make this gay boy happy and tell me.  And in the meantime, I’ll give you my thoughts….   Romance Read more

I AM WRITING AGAIN!!

At last, and loving it! I am not sure what happened, but for a little over a year, I didn’t write much of anything. I just didn’t or couldn’t seem to find the time. I’m figuring the new love in Read more

I Thought I Would Share a Special Moment (or two) With You!

Some of you may know that each year I go to a retreat called Midwest Men’s Festival. It’s the center of my year. In many ways the axis my world revolves around. It’s that important to me. It even inspired Read more

What Fifty Years of Gay Pride Means to Me

It Was Fifty Years Ago TONIGHT! by BG “Ben” Thomas “I got in an argument just recently with a young man in a club who just flat out denied that it had ever been illegal to be gay. He simply Read more

Bits and Pieces. Dribbles and Drabbles. Of Health—And Husbands—And a HUGE Need for Advice!

  Hello Readers! I’m back. And apologies to all, especially Dani for my absence. Life in the last six months has been…interesting to say the least. Good, bad, and … life. So, I thought I’d share a bit of it…and Read more