A warm welcome to author Jeanne Reames joining us to talk about her new release “Dancing with the Lion: Becoming”.
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Welcome Jeanne đ
XairÄ! Thatâs ancient Greek for âHowdy.â [KHAI-rae]
Welcome to my blog tour for Becoming, Book 1 of the Dancing with the Lion duology, about the young Alexander before he became âthe Great.â Itâs an historical coming-of-age tale with a love story embedded.
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Best known for conquering most of his known world before the ripe old age of 33, Alexander made even Julius Caesar weep (for not being him). But who was he before his meteoric rise? And how did his best friend and lover, Hephaistion, give him the emotional support needed for him to become Megalexandros (the Great Alexander)?
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Dancing with the Lion Website:
Contains everything from cut scenes, to videoblogs of Macedonia (Northern Greece, where Alexander grew up), to audio pronunciations of those weird Greek names!
https://jeannereames.net/Dancing_with_the_Lion/DwtL.html
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For our GIVE-AWAY, Iâm going to offer something a bit different. Yes, thereâs a $10 gift certificate from Riptide Publishers. BUT, for the lucky winner, you get your very own scene request. Want to see a scene in the novel from a different characterâs point-of-view? Want to know what happened after a scene ended, or before it began? Or is there something youâd like to see that wasnât in the novel? Ask for it! Iâll write it just for you.
ALEXANDER AS LGBTQI ICON
âWas Alexander the Great gay?â
I get that question ALL the time. The poor horse has been flogged to death. It can also end up in an esoteric discussion of terminologies that misses any point thatâs not academic (literally). Iâd like to look at this from a different angle, with thanks to Teal for the nudge on Twitter.
For decades, Alexander has been an icon in the LGBTQI community. That upsets a portion of his testosterone-driven cis fanbase, as well as some Greeks. When early publicity for Oliver Stoneâs 2004 blockbuster hinted that Alexander might have male lovers, a group of Greek lawyers threatened to sue him. Yet as in the rest of Europe, the younger generation cares less, and in 2015, Greece passed recognition of same-sex civil unions, but couldnât quite make the leap to call it âmarriage.â Along with that, resistance to Alexander as gay, or at least bisexual, has lessened. In the Western world, âWas Alexander gay?â has shifted for many to âAlexander was gay.â Question to statement.
Howâd we get here? Indulge me in a tour of Alexanderâs treatment in modern history and recent fiction. Iâll keep it as brief as possible, but stay for the payoff, âkay?
(Image by Carole Raddato. https://www.flickr.com/photos/carolemage/5718095991/in/photostream/)
The earliest modern historians of Alexander (late 1800s) wouldnât even talk about Alexander and men. It was simply ignored. Then, in the 1930s, W. W. Tarn wrote a âdefenseâ of him from those naughty insinuations in his 2-book biography. It wasnât very convincing unless you were inclined to be convinced. After, either silence or righteous indignation were the usual responses to the matter, and historians routinely ignored Hephaistion (his probable lover) in their work because it might bring up the homosexual thing.
Then, in 1958, Ernst Badian published, âThe Eunuch Bagoasâ in The Classical Quarterly, and the ground shook. Yes, his article influenced Mary Renaultâs later Persian Boy, but it wasnât a manifesto on Alexanderâs same-sex partners. Badian sought to rehabilitate the ancient sources that Tarn had dismissed because theyâd suggested that Bagoas was, you know, REAL. Hence the article title. (Who was Bagoas? Alexanderâs attested eunuch lover from later in his campaign.)
From then on, scholarship began to talk about Alexander and men. Yet a certain discomfort remained. Most ATG (Alexander the Great) historians were cis white straight guys. If many (some of whom I know personally, so can vouch for) were also left-leaning agnostic/atheist liberals, people are products of their era. They might acknowledge that Alexander had male lovers, but thinking too closely about it was outside their comfort zone.
In addition, this new generation coincided with the âBadian Revisionâ that attacked Alexanderâs image as Romantic Hero or Gentleman Conquerorâfairly, to be honest. He committed some horrific acts. In any case, the current trend painted him (and his friends and supporters, including Hephaistion) with a hostile brush, independent of sexual orientation.
Well, maybe. Of them all, Hephaistion faired worst, and a lot of that assessment was colored by his emotional role in Alexanderâs life.
About the same time, Mary Renault (herself bisexual) published Fire from Heaven (1969). We might call it a toe in the water; sheâs very allusive about Alexander and Hephaistion in it. But in 1972, she followed it with The Persian Boy, and threw down the damn gauntlet.
Oh, what a difference a riot can make! Hello, Stonewall.
Iâve noted a tendency among younger LGBTQI readers to pooh-pooh Renault for her âoff the pageâ takes on Alexander and sex, or for her idealizing of Alexanderâand I agree about the idealizing. But we must place her in her proper historical context. At the time, she was a lightning strike. Whatever I may think of her literary portrayal, I recognize her enormous impact, and salute her. You go, Grrrrl.
I collect ATG fiction for snorts and giggles, have for a long time. But with a couple exceptions where I was asked to review something, Iâve avoided reading any since 1998, in case of even accidental influence on my own work. After Dancing with the Lion sold, however, I finally read what I hadnât, for an academic paper on Alexander and Hephaistion in fiction post-Stonewall. I wonât detail the books I covered, but will share the PATTERNS I saw, and let you. Gentle Reader, draw conclusions.
First, and most importantly, all but one novel presented Alexander and Hephaistion as lovers. If the presentations werenât universally positive, it marked a sharp break with pre-Stonewall books.
In every novel wherein Alexander and Hephaistionâs love affair was positively portrayed, Hephaistion was also presented positively. Alexander may or may not have been. In every novel wherein Alexander and Hephaistionâs relationship (and homoeroticism) was negativized, Hephaistion was also negativized, and usually Alexander as well.
Yet several novels ticked âneither of the above.â In some, the relationship was problematized, usually for plot reasons; in others, the author sent mixed messages about homoeroticism (I think accidentally). Curiously, in most of these, Hephaistion was presented positively while Alexander was not. Finally, in the single novel where they were not lovers, Hephaistion was positive, but Greek homoerotic activity was flat ignored.
Take-away: authors who portray the relationship positively, have a positive Hephaistion. Authors who show it negatively make Hephaistion (and Alexander) morally iffy, at best. Otherwise, itâs a crap-shoot.
Hereâs the kicker (and I bet you can guess whatâs coming): the positive portrayals were all by women, plus one man. Neutral portrayals might be a mixed bag, gender-wise. The negative ones? All guys. And the one where they werenât lovers? A guy.
That, to me, sends a powerful message about whoâs comfortable with the idea, regardless of whether an author publicly supports LGBTQI rights. Several of the negative ones were published before 2000, but others were recent-ish.
If the queer civil rights movement has made great strides in the 21st century, weâre experiencing a predictable cultural backlash. And in the current environment, I think it hugely important not just for LGBTQI people generally, but especially LGBTQI youth to be able to look at history and say, âHey! He loved a man, and look what he accomplished!â I wonât go into, here, whether Alexander was âgay,â âbi,â or if we should even use such anachronistic terms. Iâll be happy to do that elsewhere over a beer.
Here, I want to say that, YES, dammit, itâs not only okay, but important for the LGBTQI community to claim Alexander. In Dancing with the Lion, heâs portrayed as what we would call bisexual. But golly gee, the person Alexander loved best in the world was another guy. So, if that realization keeps some LGBTQI kid from harming themselves, Iâm all for it. Never mind whether we can call him âgay.â
About Dancing with the Lion: Becoming
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Two boys, one heroic bond, and the molding of Greeceâs greatest son.
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Before he became known as Alexander the Great, he was Alexandros, the teenage son of the king of Makedon. Rather than living a life of luxury, as prince he has to be better and learn faster than his peers, tackling problems without any help. One such problem involves his increasingly complicated feelings for his new companion, Hephaistion.Â
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When Alexandros and Hephaistion go to study under the philosopher Aristoteles, their evolving relationship becomes even harder to navigate. Strength, competition, and status define oneâs fate in their worldâa world that seems to have little room for the tenderness growing between them.Â
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Alexandros is expected to command, not to crave the warmth of friendship with an equal. In a kingdom where his shrewd mother and sister are deemed inferior for their sex, and his love for Hephaistion could be seen as submission to an older boy, Alexandros longs to be a human being when everyone but Hephaistion just wants him to be a king.
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About the series Dancing with the Lion
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Alexandros is expected to command, not to crave the warmth of friendship with an equal. In a kingdom where his shrewd mother and sister are deemed inferior for their sex, and his love for Hephaistion could be seen as submission to an older boy, Alexandros longs to be a human being when everyone but Hephaistion just wants him to be a king.
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About Jeanne Reames
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Jeanne Reames has been scribbling fiction since 6th grade, when her âwrite a sentence with this vocabulary wordâ turned into paragraphs, then into storiesâŠand her teacher let her get away with itâeven encouraged her! But she wears a few other hats, too, including history professor, graduate program chair, and director of the Ancient Mediterranean Studies Program at her university. Sheâs written academic articles about Alexander and ancient Macedonia, and does her best to interest undergrads in Greek history by teaching them (et al.) to swear in ancient Greek.
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Her Website: https://jeannereames.net/Dancing_with_the_Lion/DwtL.html
On Facebook: facebook.com/jeanne.reames.3
On Instagram: instagram.com/jeannereames
On Twitter: twitter.com/DrReames
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One lucky person will win a $10 voucher for Riptide. But this giveaway also includes something much more personal:
Your very own SCENE.
Iâve committed to write, for the give-away winner, a scene of her/his/their choice.
Would you like to see X scene described from a different characterâs POV (point-of-view)?
Or would you like to know what happened just before X scene, or right after?
Or maybe thereâs something I didnât write about at all, but youâd like me to write it for you?
There are some parameters, especially for the third category (write a scene not included). The request is subject to my agreement that the characters would engage in the requested behavior. So keep that in mind. (I wouldnât write a scene wherein Alexander beat his dog, for instance.)
But I look forward to the winnerâs scene challenge!
I have some âcuts scenesâ as well as âmissing scenesâ (in the year between the novels) that will be available on my website (https://jeannereames.net/Dancing_with_the_Lion/cut_scenes.html) after July 1st
When done, this one will join them.
Each tour stop is a chance to enter by leaving a comment below. Entries close at midnight, Eastern time, on June 6, 2019. Contest is NOT restricted to U.S. entries. Thanks for following along, and donât forget to leave your contact info!Â
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I have been enjoying following the tour. thanks so much.
Thank you for following along!
I read THE PERSIAN BOY last summer, and thought it was lovely. Looking forward to DANCING WITH THE LION!
vitajex(at)Aol(Dot)com
Thank you! I do hope you enjoy it!
book sounds like a great read
jmarinich33 at aol dot com
Thank you!
Sounds good!
jlshannon74 at gmail.com
Thanks!
Love the cover!
susanaperez7140(at)gmail(dot)com
Thank you; I do too.
I have enjoyed the tour and the book. Am looking forward to your non-fiction book on Hephaestion too. Roz123uk at yahoo dot co dot uk
Thank you. The Hephaistion bio will take a few years. It’s a lot more complicated. (And there’s your email address!)
Thank you for the blog tour and intriguing posts. I’ve learned a lot.
humhumbum AT yahoo DOT com
You’re welcome.
What an article! Thank you! I hope his story and your message gets widespread among the kids who needs a role model!
Thanks, that’s my hope, as well, (don’t forget your email address to be part of the give-away).
Whoops thanks for the reminder: freyall at gmail com
Can I ask if this is the gist of your conference presentation? I was really curious about it but thought I probably should not ask you to openly share the content so this is so satisfying to read. Thank you! It’s so hard to believe that a fan would deliberately ignore his significant other or their emotional bond. I mean this is an important part of him. How could any fan do that? I don’t understand.
If you mean the book conference paper, yes, it’s the essential summary. I left out the actual books reviewed (for space, it’s a long enough post as it is). As the paper was for a very specific panel, and more reception than research, I probably won’t publish it separately any time soon, unfortunately.
I understand! Were you planning to upload the individual book reviews on timblr? I remember reading one on stealing fire. Looking forward to more! đ
Yeah, at some point, I will. I’ve just been swamped. Want to do Judy Tarr’s LORD OF THE TWO LANDS and Melissa Scott’s A CHOICE OF DESTINIES next. I like them both.