There are few statements in the English language that fill me with more dread than the, “Let’s play a game!” one. (Okay, that might be an exaggeration, after all “The aliens have landed,” or “Putin’s somehow been elected Prime Minster of Canada,” would be far worse. But I’m talking real, boring, no-surprises life here.)
It’s not that I get extremely uncomfortable in social settings (I do), or that I despise following rules (also, yes), it’s that I just really, really hate playing games. Board games, card games, stick something on your head and act like a crazy person game, it doesn’t matter — I hate them all. I’ve done my best to reiterate that to my friends on several occasions but more often than not I get some kind of version of, “You’re really going to like this one, though.”
Not true, mes amis. Unless you’ve pulled out a bag of tiled letters and what looks like the bare bones of a crossword puzzle, I’m not going to like it. I promise.
Most of the time I can beg out with the typical excuses: I’ve got work to catch up on, emails to answer, blog posts to write!, but occasionally I find myself with no way out (more often than not when I’m sitting across the table from a sweet bear with an endearing smile or a devilish pixie with ‘that look’ on her face). That’s where last night found me.
In honour of my usual defenses, I have to admit that I’d successfully dodged the 2000 piece puzzle (where does one get the patience for something like that?) and begged out on the card game wherein I was expected to woo a princess. (Oh, no, sir, it’s quite obvious that you are the master on that front. *smile winningly at husband and wife team*)
Unfortunately, these lovers of game had thought ahead. We have a new game, they told me. A storytelling game. And what, (the buggers used the charming smile right back at me) could possibly be better for an author such as yourself?
The answer to that question is: apparently, damn near anything.
Within one hand, I’d folded the cards in disgust and was glaring at one of my friends who’d managed, somehow, to lay down an entire hand of cards with one sentence. I couldn’t come up with a way to put down one. Seems that the art of storytelling on the spot is not my forte.
For someone who doesn’t plan their stories (I am most definitely a fly-by-the-seat-of-my-pants writer) that statement might come across as odd. The thing is, I’ve never been able to write with a list of bullet points. Stories usually come to me from things I’ve seen, or people I’ve met. I’ve often thought of plotting to be similar to catching the flu. One of those, you don’t realise you’ve got it right away kinds of illnesses. You walk away, unfazed and seemingly unaffected; you feel fine for a few hours or a couple of days; and then slowly, almost hesitantly, the little bug inside wakes up and starts breeding like the world is ending. Before you know it, you’re feeling a little woozy, a touch feverish, and oh-oh, “I think I’ve picked something up.”
So while there are some of us (imagine me glaring across the table at my friend) who look at eight cards, come up with a little story and carry on, I’m more likely to stare blankly at the cards, walk away rolling my eyes, and bit by bit and piece by piece those cards are going to start sinking into my head. Two days later I’ll be daydreaming when I should be listening (or working, or driving, or editing) as I watch eight members of the Once Upon a Time group start acting out their parts in my head.
It’s the only way I know how to play.
However, for those who might be wondering, none of this argument will do me any good with the game playing debate. I just got a soothing stroke on the top of my head, a warm smile, and a, “You’re still playing board games with us whether you like it or not.”
I’m doomed.
Until next time!
AF Henley <3
Henley was born with a full-blown passion for run-on sentences, a zealous indulgence in all words descriptive, and the endearing tendency to overuse punctuation. Since the early years Henley has been an enthusiastic writer, from the first few I-love-my-dog stories to the current leap into erotica. A self-professed Google genius, Henley lives for the hours spent digging through the Internet for ‘research purposes’ which, more often than not, lead seven thousand miles away from first intentions but bring Henley to new discoveries and ideas that, once seeded, tend to flourish.
Henley has been proudly publishing with Less Than Three Press since 2012, and has been writing like mad ever since—an indentured servant to the belief that romance and true love can mend the most broken soul. Even when presented in prose.
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My family is full of board-game and card players. We love playing games with each other not because the game is fun but because we ourselves are so entertaining (no ego in that statement. 😉 )
Uno, hate Uno. But I love playing Uno with my family. It’s always “Draw Two” “*gasp* You hate me don’t you? What did I do wrong?” We play off each other so well, it gets to be very fun.
And we change the rules to fit how we want the game to play out. Monopoly (we should never be allowed to play Monopoly xD ) the taxes and fees don’t go to the bank. They go to the middle of the board and free parking gets you all that money.
We can make payment plans for rent to make the game last longer. We can beat each other up for access to the Boardwalk.
Games aren’t about the games, they’re about the people you play with and the fun you have dong it. Puzzles are a great way to engage the brain while also having those fun chats about nothing at all.
Acting like an idiot is, of course, my family’s forte. So “act this out” type games are quite entertaining.
Sadly we’re also very competitive and childish so the fun will occasionally bleed out into fights and frustration. It’s a side you learn to live with…..unless you’ve married into the family and chances are we’ll annoy the snot out of you. Individually we’re fine, together we’re unbearable. xD
Do love flying by the seat of my pants. Always identified with that horrible “pantser” term. I really don’t like the term, it makes me sound like a high-school bully secretly enjoying seeing my victim in his underwear.
The last time I properly planned out a paper, I got a C. Every other paper, most done only hours before they were due, or turned in late, full A grades. I always come back to them and wonder if my teacher was high at the time they graded it but before that I’m a wizard at getting pages of nothing spat out.
This was a very entertaining post I loved it. Thank you for sharing this wonderful look into your life. 😀 And now I know not to ask you to play a game. xD
Thank you for the awesome look into your life right back! You sound like you have an amazing family. 😀
*smiles* Thank you for the laughter. I can’t emphasize how much I need that at this moment, and the next, and the one after. Just… thank you very much. <3
I’m very glad you enjoyed, thank you so much for reading! And laughing. XD
Mille Borne(s)? Rook. We used to play for BLOOD. *evil cackles* Risk. Other than that, keep ’em AWAY from me!
Amen, Vin! 😀
*laughing so hard* Your blog posts are always a true highlight, buddy! 😀 This one is hilarious! Guess I have to keep the Poker cards in the drawer though. XD
Thank you very much for this very entertaining post! We had a great and fun time reading it here. 😀
Thank you! It’s all fun and games until someone loses an eye, or so the saying goes (although I could probably be convinced by the “right kind” of poker game 😉 )